Rest Peacefully

I want to pay a brief homage to Matty's grandma, who passed away September 11, 2009. As stated in the previous post, we got the news one never ever wants to hear when far from home; a loved one has passed. Grandma Gerry's death caught us completely off guard. She died peacefully in her sleep (a good way to go). And yes, she lived 83 good years (not a small feat). Why, then, is it still difficult to comprehend and accept her passing?? Well, for one, you don't see many 83-years-old people sitting on their knees on the floor, blowing bubbles to their great grandchild, then effortlessly getting up to run and get a pan out of the oven like we witnessed in August. Come to think of it, you don't see many people over 40 doing that so effortlessly. I guess it's hard to comprehend, because she was truly her lively self (in mind and body) up until the end.

There were many things to love about this lady: she gave good hugs, she was generous and thoughtful, she LOVED her family, she had a casual conversational style (always called my husband Matty, a pet name I've long since adopted), she was lively and funny, and she was strong (in every sense of the word). One of my favorite things about her was her personal style. I know that may sound superficial, but I can't help it; I loved the way she dressed and carried herself. I believe personal style says a lot (i.e. about one's confidence, creativity, and attitude) and she wore bright, colorful, in-style clothes(!) for an 83-year-old. Just because you're a great grandmother who's over 80, doesn't mean you can't look cute! Live life! Have fun! In fact, one of my last conversations with her was regarding what she would wear to her class reunion. A class reunion, sadly, she never attended.

Thus, we went home to Minnesota last week to honor her life with Matt's family. We are so grateful we were able to do that. We needed comfort, and we needed to comfort.

The above picture is from her 83rd birthday party in late August. It was the last time we saw wonderful Gerry, and we will cherish memories from that day.